The slayer who thinks he slays is slain.
I feel I know the methodology behind numerology magic. Example, I think the number 7 is planning, yes? Yes. So if I have important plans to make, I should do it on perhaps the 7th month, 7th day at the 7th hour? I’ve just inserted more planning code into the universe in order to support me in my effort?
Yes. Potentially, but it’s possible to get too hung up on what you think the appropriate number is, and fail to see that you actually needed to act after 7 heart beats say, or when the 7th person speaks up. You can know the timing by watching. Keep watching and your math won’t go off.
I need to be aware in the flow of life and take the opportunities instead of being too methodical about it? Yes. It’s not about method, it’s about rhythm. It’s living and organic. If someone wants to humour me, give me a past event and describe who was involved, but don’t tell me what actually happened. Let’s see if I can divine it. One you already know the outcome of, but I don’t.
A past event? My wedding. Ok. Tell me the circumstances of the wedding only, not any outcomes stemming from it. Who was there? What was done? As much detail as you can recall, but don’t stress. Just whatever comes easily.
It was in a hotel in Scotland and family came from Canada. Mostly family and a few friends from our working lives. Ok, I think I got it. Will it bother you if it’s a bit negative? No.
Ok. From then on you settled into a comfortable married life for the most part, but with a chronic pattern of insecurity, and your financial situation seems to be in unexplainable flux. Yes, that is true.
You have not had really personal/ugly fights, but the arguments seem almost impossible to understand. Which in a way makes them more upsetting, and you likely have bouts of mild depression. We both do. Yes, I meant you plural. How am I doing so far? You are doing well.
The numbers there were 2. The two worlds, the two groups. Yes. Family from Canada and the UK. And the simple split between your intention and the act.
The other number was 5. The number of practicality. The concern over getting your needs met on any level.
These add to the number 7. The number of vision and the big picture. Making things seem so huge and hard to understand, and drowning otherwise normal emotion under the weight of imponderables.
What do you think? Yes. It sounds right to me.
To clear this out and create a reset, add the number 3. A third party reference point. Either common ground that you are both equally drawn to or some form of counselling. With your situation, it would go easily either way. It would have to be neutral. It can’t be religious. That would be adding 4 and not 3, which would make it 2 and result in a split. You both have a trusted friend or confidant? Someone you both go to in an informal way? That would be best.
Hmm, we don’t have a lot of friends to be honest. Ah, friend making as a couple then, going out. My wife and I go to tai chi classes and gaming groups.
Quick summary. The numbers are 1 – 9. There is no 0 because zero is everything, and you can just look for patterns in your life. If you are interested, look into more codified methods. When you get multi-digit numbers, you add them down to one single value. The numbers just repeat. So 237, is 2+3+7, which = 12, which = 3.
A friend sees the number 22 everywhere like something is trying to communicate with her. What might that mean? Ah yes, it’s a line in the sand. She has been in a lot of arguments, and she is being called on to get on her own side instead of staying in the middle as she tends to.
Wasn’t there a movie about something like that? The Number 23 with Jim Carrey? 23 is the root dynamic. All even numbers are balanced. All odd ones are dynamic, and 1 is the source. So 1 2 3, 23, 5. 5 is the number of humanity and the Messiah among other things, and the balance between man and their desires versus the world.
A parting bit of numerology wisdom. Life is not a zero sum equation. No matter what choice you make, you will wind up somewhere in this same world just looking at it from a different number which is a different point of view. You need not worry about your fate in any absolute sense. What goes crazy now will always even out later.
Your thoughts are welcome. Be well friends.