Month: February 2009

  • Thinking Anger

    Thinking Anger

    Beware. Anger seems to be an inflammatory topic. We all deal with anger frequently if not daily, and we have a lot of ways of dealing with it. We are actually told more about anger than we are about love. Yet of what use is it? If the common wisdom and understanding of angry is…

  • Clear Anger

    Clear Anger

    What it comes down to, and hypnosis proves this, is what you don’t know and what you ignore, can and does hurt you. What you are pushing away continues to operate on its own even without your understanding. Thus we have episodes when we “act out of character.” We “don’t know why I did that.”…

  • Warped Thinking

    Warped Thinking

    Redress isn’t revenge, and this brings us to the second brain that differentiates between the sources of things. It prevents us from trying to mate with a fence post or eat rocks. At least for most. Some people are remarkably deranged, but the early mammal brain told us that not only do I need to…

  • A Ride in Your Head

    A Ride in Your Head

    Any student of logic knows that logic is just a form of cognitive reality checking.  It is a function of the monkey mind taken to a cerebral level, and logic can be satisfied by any consistency. This is why even now psychology says that any belief that is commonly held by your culture cannot be…

  • Everything is Sex

    Everything is Sex

    This may sound absurd, but everything is sex. It’s been in the Egyptian Book of the Dead. It’s in the Pantheons of the Gods. Life and death. Fire and earth. It is all sex. Sex is the cycle of creation and destruction. It is the most primal human instinct, and all others stem from it.…

  • Mind Sex

    Mind Sex

    It’s an established fact that the mind cannot tell the difference between something vividly imagined and a literal event. They have even discovered something that totally surprised them. They call it mind sex. It has been explored in psychology rather fully, because they didn’t believe it was possible. You can without any form of mechanical…

  • Eros is Your Spirit

    Eros is Your Spirit

    This sculpture exemplifies energy transference between a “Couple”. The consuming being mutual, each consuming the other. This transference is continual regardless if it is sexual or not (erotic). by Trinity Hunghi Eros is your spirit. Eros is forever your spirit. Psyche is your memory. It’s your learning, your skills and self expression, and ideally they…

  • Notice That You Are

    Notice That You Are

    Interpersonal expectations, they seem almost a certain recipe for grief, no? I tend to live by trusting a dog to poo on the carpet. It isn’t about any personal assault. It is just how the dog is. Then it’s marvellous when they go outside. It brightens your whole day. If you accept the “bad”, it…

  • Change is our Perception

    Change is our Perception

    Change isn’t some alien force that makes us uncomfortable in our lives. Change isn’t any form of victimization that just makes us feel like we have no control. In fact, things like fire, and flood, and earthquake are very far from new. The wind has rose in destructive storms for as long as humanity can…

  • Popular Insights of 2008

    Popular Insights of 2008

    Too many posts to handle? If you missed out on a great post from 2008, here’s a few of the top posts that you may want to check out: Secret of Conflict Posted August 2008 in Shadow The secret of conflict is that there is no conflict. We perceive ourselves to be in opposition. But the…

  • The World Working

    The World Working

    If you tell me my car was stolen, and I was not concerned about my car, not focused on anything to do with the car, is that really change for me? Oh, it might change for me later as my focus changes, but what if I have an attitude that the car just doesn’t matter,…

  • Fear of Change

    Fear of Change

    To overcome my fear of change, I need to work on my focus? Yes, change is what you see it to be. Realize that change is what you say it is. What you think, and feel, and believe it is. I have had people be aghast at what I find to be indifference in my…

  • Hand in Change

    Hand in Change

    Who is actually fascinated with their own minds? Because your mind is your world, and you are response able people. If you would have a hand in change then realize that what you have, and what you feel, is where you are at, and by that same power that you change your feelings and change your…

  • Change Gives

    Change Gives

    Change has given us a lot of great things. Change has given us everything. A new human life is a whole lot of change. We get a new human form from material we can’t even really see. You cannot guide what you will not touch, and what you will not allow to touch you, and…

  • Change Focus

    Change Focus

    How do you change the focus of the mind? Well, it is pretty simple. The mind is habitual, but it has limits. There are ideas that really confuse people about the mind, and you can’t change your mind by force of will. It doesn’t really matter if you are determined, if anything being determined keeps…

  • Comfort Zone

    Comfort Zone

    We don’t consider change very often as a rule, yet we get heavily invested in avoiding it, and keeping a picture of the world and ourselves, even if we profess to not like the world. Some of the most resistant people to change also eagerly say the world sucks, but when you point it back…

  • No Failure

    No Failure

    I have scary news, and it’s terrible.  There is no failure. No matter what you do, you did that. Failure is the unexpected outcome, defining that which was not in your definition of success? Yes, but is it your definition of success? How many people have something that is genuinely their personal definition of success?…

  • Joy

    Joy

    Joy is calming. So when can you have joy? With love. When ever we choose. When letting go. All true. The idea that you can control the world is a bit silly isn’t it? The idea that change is to be controlled, and that it must have your approval. Where is your own world? Is…