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Mood Jumping
Why do some people get stuck in moods for days at a time? Because they are stuck in behaviors for that length of time. It’s been said that hell is repetition. Like Sisyphus pushing his boulder up the hill only to have it roll back down, people try to force the world to work in…
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Jumping Over Yourself
So I will ask, has any effort to make something happen worked the way you wanted it to? Emphasis on make, force. By force of will did you ever succeed exactly as you intended to? When I’ve tried to force, it backfires. There is not just one layer of sympathetic connections. There are many. The…
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Jumping Through the Hoops
My way of dealing with difficult people? If I actually want to exercise power? When I choose to exercise power with a difficult person, I find that part of myself that resonates with their state. It’s usually bitterness and contempt. They only use the weakest spark of aggression, but I let my bitterness surface, my…