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Obliged to Suffer?
Does obligation have to be a suffering? No, it doesn’t. It doesn’t have to be a suffering, but it only ceases to be a suffering when we see that we chose that set of obligations, and recognize why we do. See ourselves in it. But, but, but aren’t we “obliged“ to suffer? Yes. They tell…
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Imposed Obligation
The subject is obligation. I will start with a bit about one of my own obligations. I was sought to do meetings here in Second Life, because they felt I had something to contribute, and I accepted their invitation. This did create an obligation for me. One I respect and honour as the founders of…
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Confrontation
These people you dislike, they aren’t your enemies. They have given you the gift of seeing your own definitions. You can accept that special gift from them, and then not hurt yourself over anything else about them. There is attachment, aversions and indifference to everyone we meet. It’s the indifference with which I am focusing…
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Reaching Out
Do you have a desire to reach out to others? Then you can treat that desire to reach out to others the same as you treat those obligations you hold to yourself, and do it for the same reason. Personal fulfillment. Recognize that you have a use for others, and select those others for your…
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Obligation As Giving
Not being a part of the system of judgements, which you didn’t yourself create anyway, goes a long way to helping you see the issue of obligation clearly. Ignoring your obligations all together is no more wise than subscribing to everyone anyone passes to you, because other people have held obligations to you as well.…
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Christmas Spirit by Cheryl Watt
You know, spirit is something that I feel changes in the same way the body changes. Life events can alter the way you see the world… Yes, that is stating the obvious. Well, perhaps folks can use a little reminder. Spirit is something that develops with age, it can be nurtured and it can be…
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Blind Obligation
Tell me friends, how do you come about your obligations? Onerous ones? No, all. Good question. Training from parents. Yes, parents for me too, and husband. Being born. A lot is programmed for me. Voluntarily. Then you are well set, but is all your voluntary behaviour self chosen? Are there many ways to define obligation?…
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Enneagram Types
Each enneagram number has its roots in one facet of human existence, but goes to another. I am a four (4). This number is called the individualist. I’m a very reflective person and delve deeply into my own psyche. I tend to be an intuitive thinker, but when things shift I shift to one of…
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This also seems descriptive for a type 3 indigo. I do have many of these traits that alternate but know…