To the degree that you defer to the wisdom of this life that brought someone so amazing as you into being, accept that you are meant to be, and feel, and have desires, and take actions according to the dictates of your heart.
Desire forms are “emotional” forms, and in my opinion not the same as thought forms. Emotional forms are closer to Plato’s first forms, though there are forms that precede emotion.
Do you all feel satisfied with your level of self expression in your lives? I offer you can be satisfied. Your very being will know when you are operating in fullness. Now mind you, by satisfied I don’t mean done. I mean full. Life isn’t done until you move on as reality has set up for us.
I see that. At least progressing without being productive. Actually, there is no such thing as not productive. Every action, every thought, cause and effect, karma, you are endlessly productive. What you might not be is centered. In balance, but we can’t make balance anymore than we can make our own bodies.
Being productive is being open, and our first state of being open was infancy. We started off alright, but are we open now? Hmmm, so what is there that keeps you closed?
I try not to hurt others so keep the frustration inside and try to control it. What is it to try not to hurt others? How is that possible? I don’t try not to hurt others, I try to do things. But I don’t even try to do things, I do things and the things I do come from my being. No trying necessary. I feel, and I move. I think, and I create.
But what if those things are in conflict with the things of others? Conflict is to be avoided why? Can you be open and not be open to conflict? If you are not open to conflict then what productive outcome happens?
I have hurt people by doing nothing to them at all. I have hurt people by speaking not a single word. I have hurt people by not even looking at them. What is harm?
Killing someone else’s dream because it doesn’t match with yours? I am open to their dream, especially that it doesn’t match with mine. I am open to their feelings, so I don’t have to have them be mine. I am open to their dreams, so I don’t have to have them match mine. I am open to their moment, so I don’t have to take it for my own. I am open to their place, so I don’t have to keep them there.
I can’t judge another’s story. It is theirs, not mine, to judge. I can only judge my story in my head. And you can choose not to judge your story. You can see that your head is part of your body, and your body comes from the world, and the world acts with you in it. Acts with you and as you. We all belong.
I just realised I am only hurting myself when I try to not hurt others. As their dream wins and mine dies. Thank you for helping me see that.
Your thoughts are welcome. Be well friends.