Any experience you have that does not bring you peace, you failed to accept. To the degree you feel removed from a peaceful state, you have a list of rejections.
We have alot of interferences in our thought. People try to do thinking, and it makes the mind grind against itself. I think all the time, and I don’t do anything about it. The thoughts I share with you occur as I just sit. I don’t do them. Sometimes they occur as I’m paying attention to a book or a conversation. Scripts are like dry toast or actually burnt toast. I like seeing what thought occurs while I’m watching. Any book is good, but it is a book.
I have a friend who talks without pausing. She says lots of things and nothing. They are deadly serious about this nothing aren’t they? Even afraid of it.
She says things like patterns. Expressing patterns and looking for affirmation if you give credit to her. Any teaching is a teaching, any reading is reading.
In a very pessimistic way, she needs to behave bad in the world. There is substance to her thinking. It’s a very tight noose she chooses. If she stays there she will hang herself in time.
She’s heavy to bear, so it’s natural to have a desire to get rid of her. Actually, you want to be rid of her ego, and you see that a shock is needed.
She says that other people are heavy. A baby must be held. If you’re holding an able bodied adult, you should drop them. Then have a long talk about why you were carrying them.
I ask questions to myself, not to her. There is no point in asking her questions, she doesn’t really answer. Ask her questions she won’t answer. I do it with people all the time, the words remain said.
That sounds amusing. Yes, the divine trickster is never out of reasons to laugh.
Actually, it seems that she has an answer for everything. Indeed, answers spawn more questions. Ask them.
But she’s often so ridiculous. Ask her dumb questions. I ask people dumb questions all the time, and smirk as they react to what they think is me being dumb.
She’s completely focused on herself. Then she won’t notice you slipping out the back door? She apparently needs to talk to herself.
I say “yes” or “no” every now and then. I say the opposite. If someone’s going to make me a mirror, I’m really going to make myself one. I never agree to anything, and things manage to be ok.
Communication isn’t draining, talk is. When you bottom line it the person is always who they are. You might be confused by what they say. Hell, they may be confused by what they say, but what matters is what they do. Do they express love to you?
Your thoughts are welcome. Be well friends.