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Secret of Conflict
The secret of conflict is that there is no conflict. We perceive ourselves to be in opposition. But the one who opposes you, do they oppose “you”? Or has their way run afoul of yours? They seek something in opposition. Imagine an auto accident … It is nothing about opposition, just nature interacting with nature…
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Conflict Is Perception
Most people see conflict as drama and feel it there moral duty to avoid it, but you can’t avoid conflict. You are very likely involved in more conflicts than you currently perceive. It’s only your perceptions that bother you. I’ve often had people comment on an interaction after the fact that they saw as a…
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Understanding Conflict
Conflict is not an easy thing to understand. If one can recognize that it is a matter of opinion, and that it isn’t necessary to agree. Most of the ways you get “wronged” are in fact not about you or your well being at all. I love a good debate. I have learned it is ok…
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Choice In Conflict
Let’s get a bit wild. Let’s say you have a haunting. How many of you follow this research? Ghost hunters anybody? I’m not a hunter, but I believe in them and I like shows about haunting though I sometimes question the accuracy. The accuracy is specious, but I’m just checking if we have a perceptual…
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Dealing With Conflict
One of the members of ‘One World, Many Paths’ seemed to use the group as a pulpit. He has very strong opinions. The funny thing is that he actually does know what he is talking about if you give it the test of time and let it play out. It’s just the way he comes across that…
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Reality Checking In Conflict
I’ve noticed how some things I’m fine with, and others will drive me nuts, and I’ve wondered what’s the difference between them? The things you are fine with though you don’t know why, are consistent with your brains “reality checking” mechanism. All of our minds engage in this process. It’s a necessary behaviour for survival.…
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Dealing With Interpersonal Conflict by Donna Reish
Most people will have at least one interpersonal conflict every day. In fact, conflict is a part of every interpersonal relationship. Unfortunately, it often seems that interpersonal conflicts have much more harmful than healthy approaches to a resolution. That being said, it’s important to understand negative conflict management to avoid those pitfalls and to achieve…
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Spirits Thriving in Conflict
Do our things appear to be fearless? Has it never seemed like the leaf is afraid of falling even though it’s “dead”? Ever have a personal item that though you chronically misplace, it keeps seeming to show up on its own in places you swear you never put it? My daughter lost a pocket knife,…
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Conflict Between Thought and Intuition
You can easily experience the conflict between intuition and normal thought for yourself. Between both extremes you have the thalamus. The amygdala begins to show the split, but beneath that you have what has been called the “reptile brain“, and the conflict between your conscious thought and your intuition registers here as physical sensations and…
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Conflict Between Science and Religion
There is a notion held in common these days by many people, that there is somehow a conflict between science and religion. I would acknowledge that currently there is social tension between avowed atheists and members of any religion, even if the religion espouses no real dogma to be opposed to as is the case…
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Can We Live Without Violence?
Can You Describe Violence? What is violence? Violence is doing harm to others.Violence is upset of balance.Violence is an act driven by hate.It is a negative feeling. So a surgeon is committing violence? If a surgeon stopped mid way, yes.He is fixing what is wrong.Or if the surgeon were doing it for sadistic pleasure. They…